Know your partner’s erogenous zones for better sexual life

‘Love making’ involves a sensuous interplay of emotions, expressed physically through touches, kisses by two people in love… also referred as ‘chemistry’ in common parlance!

When right emotions are evoked, bodies open up to ‘erogenous zones’, which ordinarily stay shut (dormant) during routine daily activities. Looking academically, ‘erogenous zones’ are those special areas of our body that are particularly sensitive to sexual stimulation… only if touched in a special manner by a special person at a special time.

When touched, kissed or caressed sensually by a romantic partner during intimacy, these erogenous zones can highly arouse a person, making him/her perceive intense physical pleasure and inebriating emotional high… depending on the depth of involvement and intensity of participation by both the partners.

However, if the same areas of the body are touched by a partner or a spouse at an inopportune, unexpected or unwelcome moment, it can even go completely unnoticed or even be perceived as unpleasant. Touched by a stranger or an intruder, it can even be a ‘traumatic’ experience for the unwilling participant/victim, while the body areas may still be same.

In a nutshell, ‘erogenous zones’ is much more than just areas on our body that are sensitive to sexual stimulation. When accompanied with suitable emotions and a willingness to act sexually… and the manner in which these body parts are touched is what makes them ‘erogenous zones’.

The three academically documented erogenous zones include the lips, breasts and genitals. Some other erogenous zones could include the neck, ears, shoulders, arms, legs, back, waist and even feet… and could vary from person to person. The way each Zebra has similar stripes, but they are still different on each Zebra, we all have erogenous zones, however they are different in different individuals. A mole or a birth mark can very well be perceived as a beauty spot making it erogenous for either or both the partners.

Never hesitate to explore your own erogenous zones and your partner’s body to find out exactly what your erogenous zones are and then freely communicate about this to each other.

Communication is a far more effective, respectful and intimate tool to discovering your partner’s ‘erogenous zones’ rather than referring to pornographic material that is notorious for exaggerating and misrepresenting data.

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